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In the morning, I awoke to the sound of rain teeming down. Uh oh- not a good sign for a wedding day! Most of the year, we have incredible weather on our sunny Caribbean island of Roatan, and a destination wedding at Barefoot Cay normally means a backdrop of beautiful blue skies touching down to a sparkling blue ocean. However, we wouldn’t have such a lush, green island if we never got any rain! But not to worry, we frequently have night/morning showers that clear up early in the day to beautiful sunshine. I headed in to work and straight to the computer to check on a weather site. Not looking good- 60% chance of rain for the afternoon. The other days during the week also had a fairly high chance of rain: a bit better odds than the current day, but definitely not a guarantee.
I set out in search of the bride and groom to discuss options with them- different date, different site? In North America, changing a wedding date on the day of the wedding might be impossible, but here in Roatan, it can usually be done if needed: musicians, photographers, pastors are accommodating. They decided that they would stick with the original day, and try to aim for the beach that was originally intended, with a back-up of the palapa if it looked like it was going to pour.
The decision, and the attitude of James and Sherida when they made it, reflected a lot about their personalities and their ability to cope with problems that inevitably arise in life and marriage. The rain and clouds weren’t in their plans for their wedding day, but they chose not to let it get them down, and just slightly alter their plans and keep moving forward.
The rain stopped in the morning, and though there were clouds overhead, it looked like any more rain would hold off. Our Barefoot Cay wedding team got the beach beautifully decorated with a bamboo arch draped in white, navy and lime green, and the aisle sprinkled with hibiscus. Champagne was iced down and ready to be popped.
The hairdressers arrived, and headed over to the bride’s beachfront bungalow to start coiffing her locks. The kitchen staff prepared the wedding table in the Lookout Lounge, and the getaway barge got decorated and ready to whisk away the newlyweds.
The pastor arrived, followed by the photographer and the videographer. The bride slipped into her dress and gotten buttoned up by her mom. Meanwhile, everyone gathered down on the beach, where the clouds miraculously held tight onto their raindrops.
The guitarist was strumming softly as Sherida made her entrance. On her father’s arm, she walked the aisle up to her position next to her future husband. The pastor started with traditional vows, and then they exchanged vows they had written themselves, and I passed out kleenex
Husband and wife joined with family and friends and toasted to their new lives together. Then, while everyone else went to enjoy a few appetizers and reggae music by the pool, James and Sherida went to pose for photos. A few raindrops started to fall, and then stopped! Menacing clouds loomed overhead, but refused to open. The rain held off, not just for the ceremony, but also for the rest of the evening.
After dinner, everyone danced by the pool, and the grand finale was when James and Sherida took the plunge- literally
Congratulations, guys! Thanks for sharing your special day with us.